In a large bowl, mix the flour, oatmeal, cinnamon, and salt together. Add in the egg yolks (reserve the whites for brushing later on), heavy cream, honey, vanilla, coconut oil, and 3 tablespoons of starter. Mix until combined. Add more starter if needed to form the dough into a ball.
Use your hands to work the dough into a nice ball shape. Cover with plastic wrap and allow it to sit at room temperature for at least 8 hours. *It can be put in the fridge for additional time if needed. See notes.
Make the egg wash. To do this whisk the egg whites and 1 tablespoon of milk together. You will have extra.
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F.
Divide the dough into 10 equal parts. Flatten each into a rectangular shape and roll out into a rectangle about 1/16" thick.
Use a dough scraper to scrape the dough up off the counter to loosen it before placing the jam on.
Place a heaping tablespoon of jam down the center of each square. Fold one side over about 3/4 of the way. Brush this section with the egg wash. Fold the other side over gently pressing into the side with the egg wash. Press each end closed by pinching dough together. Gently lift the bar, using the dough scraper if needed.
Flip it over and lay it seam side down on a parchment lined cookie sheet.
Repeat with the remaining dough. When they are all assembled brush with the egg wash and sprinkle a small amount of quick oats on the tops.
Bake on the middle rack for 12-15 or until lightly golden brown on top, do not over bake, if they begin bursting on the tops remove them immediately.
Allow to cool 5-10 minutes, then carefully transfer the bars to a container with a lid, layering them between pieces of parchment paper. This will trap in heat and moisture helping them remain soft. Store in an airtight container for up to 3 days or in the fridge for longer. These can also be wrapped in plastic wrap and frozen, thaw for 1 hour.